♦ The Winner is always part of the answer;
The Loser is always part of the problem.
♦ The Winner always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.
♦ The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";
The Loser says, "That is not my job."
♦ The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.
♦ The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible";
The Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."
♦ When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, "I was wrong";
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."
♦ A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises.
♦ Winners have dreams;
Losers have schemes.
♦ Winners say, "I must do something";
Losers say, "Something must be done."
♦ Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team.
♦ Winners see the gain;
Losers see the pain.
♦ Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems.
♦ Winners believe in win-win;
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.
♦ Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past.
♦ Winners are like a thermostat;
Losers are like thermometers.
♦ Winners choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose.
♦ Winners use hard arguments but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.
♦ Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.
♦ Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would not want them to do to you";
Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."
♦ Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen.
♦ Winners plan and prepare to win.
The key word is preparation.
the lyrics of the winner takes it all by ABBA :
I dont wanna talk
About the things weve gone through
Though its hurting me
Now its history
I've played all my cards
And thats what youve done too
Nothing more to say
No more ace to play
The winner takes it all
The loser standing small
Beside the victory
Thats her destiny
I was in your arms
Thinking I belonged there
I figured it made sense
Building me a fence
Building me a home
Thinking I'd be strong there
But I was a fool
Playing by the rules
The gods may throw a dice
Their minds as cold as ice
And someone way down here
Loses someone dear
The winner takes it all
The loser has to fall
Its simple and its plain
Why should I complain.
But tell me does she kiss
Like I used to kiss you?
Does it feel the same
When she calls your name?
Somewhere deep inside
You must know I miss you
But what can I say
Rules must be obeyed
The judges will decide
The likes of me abide
Spectators of the show
Always staying low
The game is on again
A lover or a friend
A big thing or a small
The winner takes it all
I dont wanna talk
If it makes you feel sad
And I understand
Youve come to shake my hand
I apologize
If it makes you feel bad
Seeing me so tense
No self-confidence
But you see
The winner takes it all
The winner takes it all......
(my fav song ever!)#post ke-100! (in 3 yrs time? agak sloww haha)
