Look up there at the title, yeah! It has been really awhile since last I get this place updated. Why? I guess too many things came at once. My time management still, at the very poor level. I really need to do something with it. Somehow, if I were to be compared to others, I am not at the lowest bottom level of poor time management, but as my mom and dad always reminded me since I was a kid; never compare yourself to someone who are worst from you in this kind of matter. You won't go anywhere thinking you are not that stupid because you at least get the 39th place out of 40 pupils in your class! NO!
But for certain thing, you really need to make yourself think the other way round. For an example when you envy too much of beautiful people around you. You keep questioning why didn't I have that nice beautiful legs like her? Nice sharp nose like her? Shining manageable hair like her? or beautiful skin like her? Stop right there. In this case, you gotta make yourself think like this. "Oh come on. At least I have a pair of working legs that can walk me everywhere I want to go. I can climb up the stairs without any difficulty, I can run, jump up high, I can walk around the mall. Look at those disable people, there is so many great places that they could not reach with their disabilities. What if I complain too much, then one day this ugly legs will be taken from me and I could not walk like usual anymore?"
See, this is the power of thinking. Manipulate the way we think to make us feel better, (whenever necessary) to make us feel worth living or sometimes to relief the stress that burden our mind. As I have always mentioned before in my previous posts, it is the 'Mind Over Matter' technique that could save us in many circumstances. Eventually, we have to know when should we compare things and how should we compare things. Comparison may lead us to higher success and achievement by boosting our self esteem or can downgrade us to the lowest bottom line of esteem. So, compare with ethics. You should know the way.
Currently reading:
The Gem Collection: A Compilation of Wisdom
Author : Joseph T.Bismark
Product ID : 9789834216733
Format : Paperback
Publisher : Rhythm House Publishing Sdn. Bhd.
Main Category : SELF DEVELOPMENT
Sub Category : MOTIVATIONAL/INSPIRATIONAL
Price : RM 44.90
Fear should not stop us from achieving the goals we have set. - Josepth T. Bismark
