Salah satu tujuan melawat jenazah adalah untuk menginsafi kehidupan dan kematian. InsyaAllah.
Wednesday, September 12, 2012
Innalillahi waina ilaihi raajiun.
Setiap satu dari kita akan datang satu hari, keramaian mengunjung kita tanpa jemputan dan persediaan majlis. Itulah harinya kita terbujur kaku.
Friday, August 03, 2012
I have finished my race!
Staring at that 'TM (COMPLETE)' status can make tears roll down my face. Allah knows what I faced throughout the end of year '11 til now :') Alhamdulillah for all the support of my family members especially mama & abah, lecturers, friends and everyone else I met along that 'fighting' journey. I am a survivor! I faced it, I fought it hard, I smiled through all the pain and suffering, I nailed my studies, finished my race with the rest :) TQ Allah.
Friday, April 13, 2012
It's not only the songs
If you're reading this. This message is for you.
Sometimes I wish you would pay attention to my favourite songs because the lyrics are the words that I am afraid to say out loud, or I simply just can't.
Sincerely,
Me.
Sometimes I wish you would pay attention to my favourite songs because the lyrics are the words that I am afraid to say out loud, or I simply just can't.
Sincerely,
Me.
Monday, April 09, 2012
I Love You : If they're only for good times
Anywhere you are, I am near
Anywhere you go, I'll be there
Anytime you whisper my name, you'll see
How every single promise I keep
Cuz what kind of guy would I be
If I was to leave when you need me most
What are words
If you really don't mean them
When you say them
What are words
If they're only for good times
Then they don't
When it's love
Yeah, you say them out loud
Those words, They never go away
They live on, even when we're gone
And I know an angel was sent just for me
And I know I'm meant to be where I am
And I'm gonna be
Standing right beside her tonight
And I'm gonna be by your side
I would never leave when she needs me most
What are words
If you really don't mean them
When you say them
What are words
If they're only for good times
Then they don't
When it's love
Yeah, you say them out loud
Those words, They never go away
They live on, even when we're gone
Anywhere you are, I am near
Anywhere you go, I'll be there
And I'm gonna be here forever more
Every single promise I keep
Cuz what kind of guy would I be
If I was to leave when you need me most
I'm forever keeping my angel close
Wednesday, April 04, 2012
Will You?
If you were to say that you love me,
I gotta ask you all these.
Will you love me in December as you do in May?
Will you love me in the good old fashioned way?
When my hair has all turned gray,
Will you kiss me and say that you love me in December as you do in May?
Love me without fear
Trust me without questioning
Need me without demanding
Want me without restrictions
Accept me without change
Desire me without inhibitions
For a love so free will never fly away.
(Walker & Sutphen)
I gotta ask you all these.
Will you love me in December as you do in May?
Will you love me in the good old fashioned way?
When my hair has all turned gray,
Will you kiss me and say that you love me in December as you do in May?
Love me without fear
Trust me without questioning
Need me without demanding
Want me without restrictions
Accept me without change
Desire me without inhibitions
For a love so free will never fly away.
(Walker & Sutphen)
Long distance relationship is not for everyone.
But I believe true love always wins.
Sunday, April 01, 2012
Enough is enough
So they said;
"The prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets. The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears and the kindest hearts have felt the most pain."
You think so?
Well as for me, I don't know.
Just everytime I felt tired being the kinda kind-hearted kind of person,
I told myself I am not kind enough yet.
So I should try harder.
But all I wanna say is actually,
enough.
"The prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets. The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears and the kindest hearts have felt the most pain."
You think so?
Well as for me, I don't know.
Just everytime I felt tired being the kinda kind-hearted kind of person,
I told myself I am not kind enough yet.
So I should try harder.
But all I wanna say is actually,
enough.
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Alhamdulillah
All the bitterness,
The tears and the pain,
It is worth it all.
3.91, Alhamdulillah.
Thanks to Allah SWT,
My mom and dad,
My siblings and family,
My friends and lecturers,
The people I passed by,
who comes and go.
The people who stayed,
who help me through it all.
And now the end is near
And so I face the final curtain
My friend I'll say it clear
I'll state my case of which I'm certain
I've lived a life that's full
I traveled each and every highway
And more, much more than this
I did it my way
Regrets I've had a few
But then again too few to mention
I did what I had to do
And saw it through without exemption
I planned each charted course
Each careful step along the byway
And more, much more than this
I did it my way
Yes there were times I'm sure you knew
When I bit off more than I could chew
But through it all when there was doubt
I ate it up and spit it out, I faced it all
And I stood tall and did it my way
I've loved, I've laughed and cried
I've had my fill, my share of losing
And now as tears subside
I find it all so amusing
To think I did all that
And may I say not in a shy way
Oh no, oh no, not me
I did it my way
For what is a man what has he got
If not himself then he has not
To say the things he truly feels
And not the words of one who kneels
The record shows I took the blows
And did it my way
Yes it was my way
(with the help of the rest of my lovely people around me; or I might fail to go through it all on my own.)
(with the help of the rest of my lovely people around me; or I might fail to go through it all on my own.)
Saturday, February 18, 2012
In choosing one over the rest
Just remember that God has written His own story for you and it's not the feelings of your heart that it should be based upon but rather the thoughts of your heart that you need to hear. That inner voice that tells you that this man will care for you no matter what, that he'll still want to kiss you when you're old and gray. Tend to you when you're sick. Honor you. - Love's Enduring Promises
Tuesday, February 07, 2012
The Rules of Ladies
No.1 - Play hard to get.
No.2 - Be the woman a man needs, not the woman that needs a man.
No.3 - Always accept a compliment.
No.4 - If he leaves or gives up on you, remember, it’s his lost. Not yours.
No.5 - If he doesn’t respect you, then you deserve better.
No.6 - You’re beautiful and no one has the rights to tell you you’re not.
No.7 - Don’t fall for a guy who isn’t willing to catch you.
No.8 - Embrace your flaws and be true to who you really are.
No.9 - Never lose faith in finding your perfect someone.
No.10 - Look like a butterfly, sting like a bee.
No.11 - Cover up. Being a mystery is more sexy than showing every inch of yourself off.
No.12 - Being single doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means you’re strong enough to wait for what you really deserve.
No.13 - The little black dress is a classic for a reason.
No.14 - A real lady holds her head high, but never her nose.
No.15 - Never underestimate the power of warm greeting.
No.16 - For the love of decency, never chew with your mouth open.
No.17 - A lady knows her limits no matter what, stick to your gun.
No.18 - Never make him carry your chihuahua unless you don’t want him around for very long.
No.19 - If you expect him to give you girl time, expect to give him guy time.
No.20 - A subtle, yet noticeable lip bite possesses exceptional power. Use with caution.
No.21 - True beauty comes from within.
No.22 - Confidence is sexy.
No.23- Never let a man define you. Be amazing on your own.
No.24-You might feel worthless to one person, but you’re priceless to another. Don’t ever forget your value. -Luan Legacy.
No.25- Don’t get your hopes up, don’t let your guard down.
No.26- If you’re not worth the trouble then he’s not the worth the time.
No.27- Be refined, polite and well-spoken.
No.28- Act like a lady, think like a man.
No.29- Be classy&fabulous always.
No.30- Always be yourself around him. If he can’t accept you for your quirks, then he’s not worth it.
No.31- Remember; if he wants to, he will.
No.32- Your dresses should be tight enough to show you’re a woman, but loose enough to show you’re a lady.
No.33- If you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best. -Marilyn Monroe
No.34- Never regret something that once made you smile.
No.35- Be brave, be bold and the guy will be yours.
No.36- A true lady doesn’t start fights, but sure knows how to finish them.
No.37- Make him chase you.
No.38- Do not stereotype guys; they’re definitely not all the same.
No.39- Always classy. Never trashy. Just a little nasty.
No.40- Just as men shouldn’t play with women’s heart, women shouldn’t play with men’s heart as well.
No.41-If you don’t stand ip for yourself, no one will.
No.42- Arch your spine, and shoulders back. This is a good posture. You are not confident until you decide to be.
No.43-Never underestimate the power of a name. Use them. Be remembered.
No.44- You can never be beautiful unless you’re happy.
No.45- Chew like you have a secret.
No.46- Always have a comeback.
No.47- Maintain your mystery; men love a good hunt.
No.48- One can never be too classy.
No.49- If he does not have a chance, tell him. Don’t lead him on and make him think that he has a chance when he does not.
No.50- To the world you may just be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
No.51- Don’t wait for Prince Charming to come and save you. Remember, being independent is more attractive to men.
No.52- If you love him, tell him. Chances are, he’ll feel the same about you.
No.53- Flirt with him enough to show your interest. But tease him enough to make him chase you.
No.54- You will never find the right guy if you are looking for the wrong reasons.
No.55- Never turn around to look back. Without doubt, he’s still looking at you.
No.56- Skirts should be like tumblr posts; long enough to cover the subject but short enough to keep things interesting.
No.57- No man is worth your tears, and the one who us won’t make you cry.
No.58- Beauty get the attention, but personality gets the heart.
No.59- You’re beautiful in every single way.
No.60- A sincere smile is a lady’s most beautiful feature.
No.61- It’s better to be hated for who you are than be loved for someone you’re not.
No.62- “Anorexia is a disease. Not a fashion statement.” -Sophia Bush
No.63- Modesty isn’t always overrated. A little mystery never hurt anyone.
No.64- Don’t just expect to find love, wait and it will come.
No.65- A guy doesn’t ever have to be more than a friend, sometimes things are better that way.
No.66- Ladies should never hit a man either. Violence isn’t classy.
No.67- You shouldn’t need to raise your voice. If you’re dealing with a person who won’t listen unless you speak forcefully, then they aren’t worth dealing with.
No.68- Never apologize for what you feel. It’s like saying sorry for being real.
No.69- A man willing to do anything just to place a smile on your face is one worth keeping.
No.70- Be happy. Someone could be falling for your smile.
No.71- Never make a man a priority in your life if you are just an option in his.
No.72- A lady should be able to make a man smile with her clothes on.
No.73- Talk loud enough so people can hear you, but soft enough so he’ll have to lean in closer.
No.74- Being different doesn’t mean you’re uncanny. You’re just limited edition.
No.75- A man forgets, but never forgives. But a lady, forgives. But never forgets.
No.76- “In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different” -Coco Chanel
No.77- “Always dress like you’re going to see your worst enemy.” -Kimora Lee Simmons
No.78- Leave the rumor-spreading and trash talking to Gossip Girl.
No.79- Always arrive at a dinner party 15 minutes late. There’s nothing wrong with being fashionably late.
No.80- Never show you’re intimidated, it shows weakness.
No.81- Remember; the treasure doesn’t do the hunting.
No.82- Make a man fall for your intelligence, not for your body and your double Ds.
No.83- Always act like you are wearing an invisible crown.
No.84- Respect from others come from self-respect.
No.85- “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” -Eleanor Roosevelt
No.86- A lady should not swear. Class is defined by elegance and dignity, not by vulgar language.
No.87- It’s better to know and be disappointed than to never know and always wonder.
No.88-Being intelligent is sexy, don’t play stupid.
No.89- Just because someone invites you to drama does not mean you have to RSVP.
No.90- Look up the definition of sophistication. Embody it.
No.91- Ladies, never label yourself as a dime. Keep in mind that real women don’t worry about being dimes because real mean don’t carry change.
No.92- Remember; All limitations are self imposed.
No.93- “Be the flame, not the moth.” -Casanova
No.94- A lady should never throw a punch, the world is already as cruel as it is, let the universe take care of them.
No.95- Take a risk, even if you fall. Because if that’s what you really want, it should be worth it all.
No.96- When asked for suggestion, don’t be afraid to give your opinion. Being assertive is an attractive feature, indecisiveness is not.
No.97- You were born an original. Don’t become a copy.
No.98- “A wise girl kisses but doesn’t love, listens but doesn’t believe and leaves before she is left.” -Marilyn Monroe
No.99- Laugh as much as you breathe and love as long as you live.
No.100- If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
No.101- Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius. It’s better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.
No.102- “If you must say yes, say it with an open heart. If you must say no, say it without fear.” -Paulo Coelho
No.103- If he’s willing to cheat with you, he’s willing to cheat on you.
No.104- Crying does not mean you are weak. Not crying does not mean you are strong. Never be afraid of being yourself.
No.105- Every day is a fashion show and the world is your runway. So always dress your best and walk with confidence.
No.106- Success is the best revenge.
No.107- Never be afraid to love. You’ll sabotage yourself without knowing.
No.108- The moment you stop looking for something, you will find it.
No.109- It’s better to be alone and dignified, than to have companionship and be taken advantage of.
No.110- Beauty is about living your life and being happy with yourself inside and out. Not worrying about what people think of you.
No.111- Don’t let doubt cause you to ignore your heart. Trust your heart.
No.112- Yelling during an argument means you’ve already lost the fight.
No.113- Remember that if you give a second chance you’re saying that you have forgiven his past. Don;t keep holding it against him.
No.114- Don’t be upset and caught up in something you cannot change. Instead, move on and smile. You deserve to be happy.
No.115- Your smile is the sexiest curve on your entire body.
No.116- Love never fails. If it fails, then it’s not love.
No.117- Be generous with expressions of gratitude such as : ‘Thank You’ and ‘I appreciate that’.
No.118- If there is anything a lady should blow, it should be his mind.
Source: The Rules of Ladies
No.2 - Be the woman a man needs, not the woman that needs a man.
No.3 - Always accept a compliment.
No.4 - If he leaves or gives up on you, remember, it’s his lost. Not yours.
No.5 - If he doesn’t respect you, then you deserve better.
No.6 - You’re beautiful and no one has the rights to tell you you’re not.
No.7 - Don’t fall for a guy who isn’t willing to catch you.
No.8 - Embrace your flaws and be true to who you really are.
No.9 - Never lose faith in finding your perfect someone.
No.10 - Look like a butterfly, sting like a bee.
No.11 - Cover up. Being a mystery is more sexy than showing every inch of yourself off.
No.12 - Being single doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means you’re strong enough to wait for what you really deserve.
No.13 - The little black dress is a classic for a reason.
No.14 - A real lady holds her head high, but never her nose.
No.15 - Never underestimate the power of warm greeting.
No.16 - For the love of decency, never chew with your mouth open.
No.17 - A lady knows her limits no matter what, stick to your gun.
No.18 - Never make him carry your chihuahua unless you don’t want him around for very long.
No.19 - If you expect him to give you girl time, expect to give him guy time.
No.20 - A subtle, yet noticeable lip bite possesses exceptional power. Use with caution.
No.21 - True beauty comes from within.
No.22 - Confidence is sexy.
No.23- Never let a man define you. Be amazing on your own.
No.24-You might feel worthless to one person, but you’re priceless to another. Don’t ever forget your value. -Luan Legacy.
No.25- Don’t get your hopes up, don’t let your guard down.
No.26- If you’re not worth the trouble then he’s not the worth the time.
No.27- Be refined, polite and well-spoken.
No.28- Act like a lady, think like a man.
No.29- Be classy&fabulous always.
No.30- Always be yourself around him. If he can’t accept you for your quirks, then he’s not worth it.
No.31- Remember; if he wants to, he will.
No.32- Your dresses should be tight enough to show you’re a woman, but loose enough to show you’re a lady.
No.33- If you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best. -Marilyn Monroe
No.34- Never regret something that once made you smile.
No.35- Be brave, be bold and the guy will be yours.
No.36- A true lady doesn’t start fights, but sure knows how to finish them.
No.37- Make him chase you.
No.38- Do not stereotype guys; they’re definitely not all the same.
No.39- Always classy. Never trashy. Just a little nasty.
No.40- Just as men shouldn’t play with women’s heart, women shouldn’t play with men’s heart as well.
No.41-If you don’t stand ip for yourself, no one will.
No.42- Arch your spine, and shoulders back. This is a good posture. You are not confident until you decide to be.
No.43-Never underestimate the power of a name. Use them. Be remembered.
No.44- You can never be beautiful unless you’re happy.
No.45- Chew like you have a secret.
No.46- Always have a comeback.
No.47- Maintain your mystery; men love a good hunt.
No.48- One can never be too classy.
No.49- If he does not have a chance, tell him. Don’t lead him on and make him think that he has a chance when he does not.
No.50- To the world you may just be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
No.51- Don’t wait for Prince Charming to come and save you. Remember, being independent is more attractive to men.
No.52- If you love him, tell him. Chances are, he’ll feel the same about you.
No.53- Flirt with him enough to show your interest. But tease him enough to make him chase you.
No.54- You will never find the right guy if you are looking for the wrong reasons.
No.55- Never turn around to look back. Without doubt, he’s still looking at you.
No.56- Skirts should be like tumblr posts; long enough to cover the subject but short enough to keep things interesting.
No.57- No man is worth your tears, and the one who us won’t make you cry.
No.58- Beauty get the attention, but personality gets the heart.
No.59- You’re beautiful in every single way.
No.60- A sincere smile is a lady’s most beautiful feature.
No.61- It’s better to be hated for who you are than be loved for someone you’re not.
No.62- “Anorexia is a disease. Not a fashion statement.” -Sophia Bush
No.63- Modesty isn’t always overrated. A little mystery never hurt anyone.
No.64- Don’t just expect to find love, wait and it will come.
No.65- A guy doesn’t ever have to be more than a friend, sometimes things are better that way.
No.66- Ladies should never hit a man either. Violence isn’t classy.
No.67- You shouldn’t need to raise your voice. If you’re dealing with a person who won’t listen unless you speak forcefully, then they aren’t worth dealing with.
No.68- Never apologize for what you feel. It’s like saying sorry for being real.
No.69- A man willing to do anything just to place a smile on your face is one worth keeping.
No.70- Be happy. Someone could be falling for your smile.
No.71- Never make a man a priority in your life if you are just an option in his.
No.72- A lady should be able to make a man smile with her clothes on.
No.73- Talk loud enough so people can hear you, but soft enough so he’ll have to lean in closer.
No.74- Being different doesn’t mean you’re uncanny. You’re just limited edition.
No.75- A man forgets, but never forgives. But a lady, forgives. But never forgets.
No.76- “In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different” -Coco Chanel
No.77- “Always dress like you’re going to see your worst enemy.” -Kimora Lee Simmons
No.78- Leave the rumor-spreading and trash talking to Gossip Girl.
No.79- Always arrive at a dinner party 15 minutes late. There’s nothing wrong with being fashionably late.
No.80- Never show you’re intimidated, it shows weakness.
No.81- Remember; the treasure doesn’t do the hunting.
No.82- Make a man fall for your intelligence, not for your body and your double Ds.
No.83- Always act like you are wearing an invisible crown.
No.84- Respect from others come from self-respect.
No.85- “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” -Eleanor Roosevelt
No.86- A lady should not swear. Class is defined by elegance and dignity, not by vulgar language.
No.87- It’s better to know and be disappointed than to never know and always wonder.
No.88-Being intelligent is sexy, don’t play stupid.
No.89- Just because someone invites you to drama does not mean you have to RSVP.
No.90- Look up the definition of sophistication. Embody it.
No.91- Ladies, never label yourself as a dime. Keep in mind that real women don’t worry about being dimes because real mean don’t carry change.
No.92- Remember; All limitations are self imposed.
No.93- “Be the flame, not the moth.” -Casanova
No.94- A lady should never throw a punch, the world is already as cruel as it is, let the universe take care of them.
No.95- Take a risk, even if you fall. Because if that’s what you really want, it should be worth it all.
No.96- When asked for suggestion, don’t be afraid to give your opinion. Being assertive is an attractive feature, indecisiveness is not.
No.97- You were born an original. Don’t become a copy.
No.98- “A wise girl kisses but doesn’t love, listens but doesn’t believe and leaves before she is left.” -Marilyn Monroe
No.99- Laugh as much as you breathe and love as long as you live.
No.100- If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
No.101- Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius. It’s better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.
No.102- “If you must say yes, say it with an open heart. If you must say no, say it without fear.” -Paulo Coelho
No.103- If he’s willing to cheat with you, he’s willing to cheat on you.
No.104- Crying does not mean you are weak. Not crying does not mean you are strong. Never be afraid of being yourself.
No.105- Every day is a fashion show and the world is your runway. So always dress your best and walk with confidence.
No.106- Success is the best revenge.
No.107- Never be afraid to love. You’ll sabotage yourself without knowing.
No.108- The moment you stop looking for something, you will find it.
No.109- It’s better to be alone and dignified, than to have companionship and be taken advantage of.
No.110- Beauty is about living your life and being happy with yourself inside and out. Not worrying about what people think of you.
No.111- Don’t let doubt cause you to ignore your heart. Trust your heart.
No.112- Yelling during an argument means you’ve already lost the fight.
No.113- Remember that if you give a second chance you’re saying that you have forgiven his past. Don;t keep holding it against him.
No.114- Don’t be upset and caught up in something you cannot change. Instead, move on and smile. You deserve to be happy.
No.115- Your smile is the sexiest curve on your entire body.
No.116- Love never fails. If it fails, then it’s not love.
No.117- Be generous with expressions of gratitude such as : ‘Thank You’ and ‘I appreciate that’.
No.118- If there is anything a lady should blow, it should be his mind.
Source: The Rules of Ladies
Sunday, January 15, 2012
Midnight Confession
Have you ever been so tired that you just wish you could lay down and sleep forever? It is like most of the time you can be the shelter, the shoulder to cry on for many family members, friends and even strangers. But what about your own feelings, needs and wants? Who is going to be that shelter for you? Who is gonna love you when it seems like no one is there for you to care or love you?
Someone just told me, "You're the strongest person I know"! But remember, even the strongest person feels helpless sometime. Sometimes the one who seems the strongest is just hiding behind a mask to protect them from being hurt. Just know that, we are just a helpless human. So helpless without the help of our Creator.
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