A friend of mine called me all of sudden just now, asking for some help. Bla bla bla bla talked to her to help her to figure out her real massive situation, and I told her,
" What ever it is, stand for yourself. Never give up. If you tak mengalah, takde siapa pun boleh kalahkan you..." kata saya.
What??? Kata saya? Wow, did I said that? Pandainya berkata-kata. Why don't I try that on myself first? People usually said that it is always easier to say than to really do it. Or it is just that it is what it is; We actually need people to say it, then only we will do it because we simply just can't rely on the decision that we made alone. This is really not good, it seems as if we have very low self esteem and not strong enough inner power to projects own decision and to hold it! What ever it is, good that I realized this. Thank you, voices from inside! :)
3 comments:
we simply need a yes from others. some kind of an approval, saying that what we're doing is right. that's all.
yes, to gain little confident, faith and reliance :)
salam singgah. nice blog u have!
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